The fabric of our society demands we become something. We create, build, strive, and prove ourselves. Sometimes it can feel good, especially if it comes from the thirsty and essential part of our soul, along with a community waiting for it. Other times, it is exhausting! Forceful, becoming quickly false and misleading, and we can forget ourselves amongst trying so hard. I recently moved country, and I left behind my 'self-fulfilled competence'. Where people know who I am and